If you simply cannot stop thinking of the person who has also stolen your dreams for a while now, this is the year for you to act and gain her heart. Irrational behaviour takes place when we are smitten with someone, and while you might feel terrified at the thought of going over and sharing a word or two with the woman you have fallen for, there are other effective ways that could see you catch her eye.
If you are shy and don’t have the courage to approach your crush, here are three tips that will ensure she at least pays some proper attention to you this year.
Dress to impress
We first fall in love with appearances, as superficial as this fact might sound to some. A study in which 1,000 men and women were surveyed in relation to love found that 78 percent of them thought physical attraction mattered when choosing their partner. Even if men are more likely to place higher importance on physical attraction than women, the latter still care about looks, and it is as a result of this that you should look after your appearance this year. If for instance you have always worn your shirt carelessly and without the necks being correctly ironed, this is the time to put an end to this. Similarly, you should make sure your tie is adequately placed between your shirt and jacket. Learn how to tie a tie and forget about your past messy self!
Some women will be attracted to the eyes and others to a man’s torso, but a killer smile will win over every single soul on this planet. This is because a smile signifies happiness and confidence and it is as a result of this that smiling can considerably increase your chances of being noticed. Research has shown that the act of seeing someone smile activates the use of endorphins in the brain and this has the effect of boosting our moods and well-being. Don’t worry if for some reason you are unable to smile on a given day, but make sure you smile more this year and that you do it naturally.
Become a more caring version of yourself
It is a well-known fact that women are more empathetic than men. Some professionals knew this before the study that came up with this conclusion published its findings. Empathy, or the ability to understand and share the feelings of another, is an essential trait to have and women know it, maybe because their lives have been more about caring than men’s have been. Either way, showing your empathetic side will definitely win you top point this year, and it is because of this that you should take up volunteering or participate in a charitable event in which you know she will also take part. Find out what she passionately believes in and help her fight for the cause.